Wo_yau _ru _he Posted December 12, 2007 at 10:00 AM Report Posted December 12, 2007 at 10:00 AM I'm thai.She's from Yunnan.She works as chinese teacher in Chaing mai,the northern parth of Thailand. We are friend now but my heart has got so much feeling for her.Today I decided to send an message to her which is " Wherever there love is,it's always got hope.Do you think, I still can hope for it?" She didn't reply yet......t_T:cry: Please give me some comment Quote
muyongshi Posted December 12, 2007 at 11:04 AM Report Posted December 12, 2007 at 11:04 AM Pick yourself up, get some friends, go have a few beers and have patience. Do a search on here and learn about how chinese girls are towards relationships. And just keep being around her...even if she says no at first don't give up. But chill out and take it easy. You never know what she is thinking or if she even understands what you mean. Quote
fireball9261 Posted December 13, 2007 at 06:45 AM Report Posted December 13, 2007 at 06:45 AM I am not sure she understand what you are saying. If I were her, I wouldn't. Which language are you sending her the message in? Did she understand the language you are sending the message in? If you are sending the message in a language you are not quite sure of, maybe in Chinese, could you express it correctly? Also, even if you expressed it correctly and she understood the words, do you think she might understand your underlying meaning? Is she one of the more sensitive and very quick to understand other people kind of girl? Or is she the kind of girl who needs others to spell out things for her to understand? You need to consider all that. Probably don't push it. Observe her attitude toward you in the next few days if she does not answer you. If her attitude towards you cools down, she understood you and is not interested or is shy. Then, you need to observe her even more. There is also the kind of cool down that shows a bit of hostility, it means she is not interested and is offended. If she cools down by avoiding you but still seems friendly enough, it might mean that she is shy about all this. You should try to make her feel comfortable again around you and proceed. If her attitude towards you does not change, she might be interested or she might not understand you at all. If her attitude towards you becomes warmer, it's possible she understands the message and is very interested. Women are hard to understand, especially Asian women. Fortunately, you are an Asian also, so you probably know how most Asian girls behave. Hopefully, she would behave close to a Thai girl even though I am not quite sure whether there are any differences in the behaviors between Thai and Chinese girls. Quote
onlyone Posted July 28, 2010 at 01:31 PM Report Posted July 28, 2010 at 01:31 PM In my opinion and experience of life in China ,Chinese girls are more interested in who is around .Cross border love doesn't work .If you really loves her just come China and find her. Quote
WilsonFong Posted July 28, 2010 at 05:53 PM Report Posted July 28, 2010 at 05:53 PM In my opinion and experience of life in China ,Chinese girls are more interested in who is around .Cross border love doesn't work .If you really loves her just come China and find her. It's been more than 2.5 years. I'm pretty sure the OP has moved on. 1 Quote
jbradfor Posted July 28, 2010 at 06:54 PM Report Posted July 28, 2010 at 06:54 PM Or maybe they're married and have kids. Who knows? 1 Quote
WilsonFong Posted July 28, 2010 at 06:57 PM Report Posted July 28, 2010 at 06:57 PM That's true. I'm such a pessimist... 1 Quote
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