Dave Posted August 27, 2005 at 02:05 PM Report Posted August 27, 2005 at 02:05 PM Dear Friends Again I pest you with a banal question. I live in Italy and I am off for China, what gifts should I take for collegues and the Univ.head master - when should I give them, asap privately or when in group? I was planning on bringing along leather belts (him) and purses (her) along with miniture statues of the leaning tower of pisa/colosseum for other staff members. Cheap Tuscany landscape paintings for future acquaintenses, and key rings of soccer clubs for students etc.. What do you think ? Thank for all the feedback. Quote
skylee Posted August 27, 2005 at 02:36 PM Report Posted August 27, 2005 at 02:36 PM I think key rings of soccer clubs for students are ok. As for your colleagues, I would guess they would be more sophisticated than liking leather goods and so on. I always think that giving food/drinks like chocolates, sweet, wines, coffee beans, etc would be more appropriate. In HK, there are strict anti-corruption laws and people in the public sector are careful about receiving gifts. And food is the most acceptable choice, because once such a gift is received it will usually be shared by everyone. But this may not be the case on the mainland. Quote
phbriggs Posted August 28, 2005 at 11:04 PM Report Posted August 28, 2005 at 11:04 PM I would avoid giving food or drink in China as the Chinese can easily get offended. The football/soccer items would go doen well. Also, taking a stamps (mint set collections), currency (range of old Italian coins/notes) or other items/ornaments unique to Italy would also go down well. Quote
fenlan Posted August 28, 2005 at 11:32 PM Report Posted August 28, 2005 at 11:32 PM Er...what are the gifts for? When you go to teach English in China, you don't need to take any gifts. Take some materials for teaching English (or Italian). Quote
Xiao Kui Posted August 28, 2005 at 11:41 PM Report Posted August 28, 2005 at 11:41 PM "I would avoid giving food or drinks - the Chinese can be easily offended." Wow, i've never experienced that before. Can you explain? Chinese people were always offering me food when i was there and always wanted food from me (especially candy!) Sometimes you might be hurt though cause some of the foods westerners like Chinese think are "tai4 tian2 le" - too sweet (or too rich) Quote
phbriggs Posted August 29, 2005 at 12:24 AM Report Posted August 29, 2005 at 12:24 AM It's easy to offend the Chinese, particularly if you give food/drink when visiting their house or if they have asked you go do or go somewhere (they are the host). The Chinese beleive that the food/drink is given to them so that it can be served while you are there (and replace the food that they might have otherwise offered you). This is where the offence is created as intrepret it as not liking their food and thats why you brought you own. You can get around this by giving food to the children - but often you don't want to give them the luxuries from the west as you are not trying to impress the children. Quote
badr Posted August 31, 2005 at 06:38 AM Report Posted August 31, 2005 at 06:38 AM for leaders, you can always try to bring in a nice looking bottle of grappa or frangelico. The emphasis here is on "nice looking bottle". They will not appreciate the stuff but it will find a prominent spot in their office or living room so that they can show it off to visitors. It doesn't matter if it is pricey as long as it looks "aged" and "classy" Quote
freefall Posted August 31, 2006 at 10:03 PM Report Posted August 31, 2006 at 10:03 PM What souviners should I bring from America to China when I travel there? I want to have something nice to show people my appreciation. Obviously the best choice is something quintessentially American... So far, my ideas are: american postage stamps american books (like a San Francisco table-top photo book--I'm from SF) american money american clothing, like sports team hats or jerseys any other ideas? Quote
gamerfu Posted August 31, 2006 at 11:48 PM Report Posted August 31, 2006 at 11:48 PM Sports Teams: Seattle Seahawks New York Yankees Seattle Mariners Miami Heat LA Lakers Stanford Those teams seem to make a fashion statement. Has to be a Baseball Cap. Pro-fitted, if possible. Jerseys seem to be quite popular too. Coca-Cola Souvenirs Sees Chocolate Starbucks Coffee Beans POP, Country, and Rock 'n Roll Music Smoked Samon Levis Jeans Bay Area Golden Gate bridge souvenirs (maybe something around your area?) English Dictionary Spider-Man, Superman, Batman Converse ALL-STAR Sneakers Costco Bottled Water (Alaskan Spring Water) Sour Patch Kids, Snickers, M&Ms Small microwavable pizzas, hot pockets Popcorn GI-JOEs Blue U.S. Passport (just kidding!) Washington Apples Florida Oranges Califorina Raisins Irish Spring Soap LA Looks Hair Gel Pinata (might be too big) Pumpkin Pie Costco Beef Hot Dogs Amercrombie and Fitch T-Shirts (Girls Only) Sorry for the long list, but these are things international students LOVE around the college campus! Quote
Xiao Kui Posted September 1, 2006 at 12:16 AM Report Posted September 1, 2006 at 12:16 AM A lot of good ideas, but some of them are already available in China: For example: Starbucks Coffee Beans (available in major cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Tianjin) POP, Country, and Rock 'n Roll Music (available everywhere) Levis Jeans (available in department stores) English Dictionary (available everywhere) Spider-Man, Superman, Batman (available, but maybe some unique items in the states) Converse ALL-STAR Sneakers (available in dept. stores) Costco Bottled Water (Alaskan Spring Water) (China has a ton of its own spring water, but some people might appreciate water all the way from Alaska) Snickers and M&Ms (available) Popcorn (microwave popcorn is available, but not that great, some good American brands might impress and delight I think local SF souvenirs are a great idea. Another good thing is those folders with coin slots for collecting the new 50 states quarters. Fill them in with whichever quarters you can find. You can't go wrong with American pennies or stickers for little kids, even though stickers are available in China, kids are always thrilled to get them. Don't flash your apples and oranges in customs - confiscation or quarantine. then again that's probably just a problem entering the U.S. I kid you not, I had a customs officer in the SF airport look in my pillowcase to make sure I didn't bring any apples or bananas off the Korean Air plane onto US soil. Quote
teachinator Posted September 1, 2006 at 03:29 PM Report Posted September 1, 2006 at 03:29 PM to add to the previous ones. I'm bringing bookmarks, calendars, and refrigerator magnets (do Chinese people tend to like those?) with pictures of the Stanford campus on them -- substitute your nearby famous institution or city. They have the advantage of all being easy to pack! I now have to rush out and buy baseball caps after reading the earlier recommendation. Quote
Jizzosh Posted September 11, 2006 at 06:34 PM Report Posted September 11, 2006 at 06:34 PM Anything NBA Anything local to your home state/region/city/etc. Anything presentable (box matters more than goods) And if anyone's reading this who is coming to China from the USA or someplace that has English Scrabble and/or a standard English Monopoly, I'll reimburse and buy you more than a couple rounds if you want to bring along a Scrabble and Monopoly set for me!!! Seriously. And if anyone has them here in China and is willing to part with them, I'll buy them... I miss Scrabble and Monopoly!!! Quote
griz326 Posted February 15, 2007 at 11:31 PM Report Posted February 15, 2007 at 11:31 PM Would I be permitted to bring a deer shed antler into China? I believe the Chinese use it in medicine and I have a sick friend I plan to visit soon. Quote
xianu Posted March 24, 2007 at 06:35 PM Report Posted March 24, 2007 at 06:35 PM gifts should be things unique to your local region/country that you can't really get anywhere else, like kitchy statues of David, or statue of liberty. Mint condition stamps Mint condition coins - someone suggested bringing those new quarters for each state I have honestly never seen anyone offended by my bringing food items. Maybe if I had bought stuff like fruits or something and brought it to their homes for dinner, but in general, specially local candies, teas (Celestial Seasonings is near my place), small items that are easily carried and unique to your region are always appreciated. Quote
magores Posted June 2, 2007 at 02:18 PM Report Posted June 2, 2007 at 02:18 PM Re: Scrabble and Monopoly I saw them at Shuangjing Carrefour about a week ago. They were around 200RMB if I remember correctly. On a separate note... I challenge Thee! Quote
mr.stinky Posted June 2, 2007 at 03:05 PM Report Posted June 2, 2007 at 03:05 PM how 'bout english language comic books for the kids? Quote
Rincewind Posted June 3, 2007 at 02:52 AM Report Posted June 3, 2007 at 02:52 AM Re: Scrabble and MonopolyI saw them at Shuangjing Carrefour about a week ago. They were around 200RMB if I remember correctly. I'd love a set of Scrabble here. If anyone can mail a set over to Anshan, I'll reimburse them by paypal or similar. As for presents: Go to the tourist shop in your home town and by all the junk you wouldn't normally be seen dead with. For me, being Scottish, that meant giant pencils with tartan on them, key rings with bagpipe players on them and tea towels printed with pictures Edinburgh castle and men in kilts. All of these are small, cheap and light weight in your luggage. Chocolate is also good. I brought 3 big 500g bars of Toblerone, 6 bars of Galaxy (500g each) and two big 1kg bars of Dairy Milk. Harry potter items are popular. I got some Harry Potter coins for free in a promotion by Asda supermarket which I then brought with me. Quote
griz326 Posted June 19, 2007 at 08:30 PM Report Posted June 19, 2007 at 08:30 PM ...I leave in a week. I am bringing Montana quarters...which I will use to pull out of any kids ear in doing a little street magic... ...fresh smoked, locally-caught coho salmon from caveman jack for a friend. I hope the salmon gets through customs. It has a very strong smell that is hard to miss. ...and those individually wrapped Hershey chocolates. Quote
Luobot Posted June 19, 2007 at 10:49 PM Report Posted June 19, 2007 at 10:49 PM There are lots of great gift ideas here, many of which I would never have thought of (like the salmon with the strong smell, which is bound to be popular with the customs officials (sh) ). The gift best received on the Mainland was when I brought over some nice Italian-made ladies cashmere/leather gloves. I couldn't believe the happy reception. Quote
Hangzhouvian Posted June 20, 2007 at 11:41 AM Report Posted June 20, 2007 at 11:41 AM Gifts are nice, but getting to work on time, doing a great job, and finishing your contract are more important. People have many more resources now, and little things are no longer of such great interest. Remember professors' names, call people by the right title, smile, and show appreciation. It is the job of the people who host you to give gifts. Quote
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