New Members Juergen Posted May 12, 2024 at 07:25 AM New Members Report Posted May 12, 2024 at 07:25 AM Hi, couldn't find any recent post about it, that's why I opened up a new one and hope it works out. I moved recently to Zhangjiagang and would like to meet other expats or English speaking people to hang out to find new friends or to have a good time. Because of the language barrier it isn't easy to spend free time in company in a meaningful way. Male, 49 years, built in Austria and worked amongst European locations for more than two decades in Sri Lanka in textiles, as I do here in China as well. Please feel free to contact me via WeChat: juergenishere Cheers, Juergen Quote
abcdefg Posted May 13, 2024 at 10:43 AM Report Posted May 13, 2024 at 10:43 AM What's it like there? Quote
New Members Juergen Posted May 14, 2024 at 12:54 AM Author New Members Report Posted May 14, 2024 at 12:54 AM Hi abcdefg, nice environment in a quite small city .... for Chinese standards. ZJG has won in the resent years aüarently the first price as best city in China, as I heard. But it's difficult to find an English speaking community here. Cheers, Juergen Quote
abcdefg Posted May 14, 2024 at 03:08 PM Report Posted May 14, 2024 at 03:08 PM Personally, I avoid the English-speaking community like the plague, even when there is one. In my case, being from the US, they always want to talk baseball and party politics and then complain about the local pizza. 99% of my friends have always been Chinese when I'm living in China. 1 Quote
New Members Juergen Posted May 16, 2024 at 04:31 AM Author New Members Report Posted May 16, 2024 at 04:31 AM Understand your points. Just a bit difficult since I don't speak Chinese at all. Quote
suMMit Posted May 16, 2024 at 10:39 AM Report Posted May 16, 2024 at 10:39 AM On 5/14/2024 at 11:08 PM, abcdefg said: and then complain about the local pizza. This sums it up😅 Quote
Jan Finster Posted May 16, 2024 at 02:04 PM Report Posted May 16, 2024 at 02:04 PM On 5/16/2024 at 6:31 AM, Juergen said: Just a bit difficult since I don't speak Chinese at all. Depends on your time horizon. If you plan to stay in China for longer, this can be a great motivator to learn Chinese. Otherwise, if you run into foreigners outside of tourist spots, approach them proactively. 1 Quote
abcdefg Posted May 16, 2024 at 04:12 PM Report Posted May 16, 2024 at 04:12 PM Is there a way you could take Chinese tutoring, Chinese language instruction, live from a local? Preferably one-to-one and face-to-face. Any teacher worth her salt would include "social" language very early to help you meet people casually, especially if you let her know it was a priority. Doesn't need to be a professional teacher of Chinese with a masters degree. I'll bet your work colleagues could suggest someone. The solution to the "I can't communicate with the locals" problem is not to find other English-speaking expats. The solution is to learn Chinese, very fast, very "down and dirty" without worrying too much about the fine points of grammar or pronunciation. Pretend you are an explorer thrust into an alien culture, which, in fact, you are. Harness the angst, use it to your advantage. Edited to add: One approach that I have found helpful in locations that don't have formal schools for teaching Chinese to foreigners is to ask around among teachers who teach English to Chinese kids. More than once, I have found individual teachers who are willing to tutor "in reverse" -- namely, teaching Chinese to an English-speaking foreign pupil, the pupil being me. Another approach, admittedly less successful, is to post notices in coffee shops -- these places often have bulletin boards. Ask a work colleague to help you write your ad in Chinese Hanzi characters. Post it in Chinese and in English. Along those same lines, could you circulate your search request at work, where you are employed? Word of mouth is very effective. Best of luck! I do hope it works out for you. 1 Quote
MadmaxxxMaSiDe Posted May 16, 2024 at 09:29 PM Report Posted May 16, 2024 at 09:29 PM Servas Jürgen, you already got quite a few good suggestions here. My first thought would also be signing up for language classes. In your case I´d rather go for group classes though, as this would be the easiest way to get to know other people and maybe becoming good friends with people through shared extra-curricular interests. 1 1 Quote
abcdefg Posted May 17, 2024 at 01:14 AM Report Posted May 17, 2024 at 01:14 AM That's a good point. One that I hadn't considered. Quote
New Members Juergen Posted May 17, 2024 at 02:33 AM Author New Members Report Posted May 17, 2024 at 02:33 AM Hi guys, thanks for all your suggestions. I will have a look around where to find some possibilities to catch some Chinese language knowledge and see how it goes from there on. Unfortunately, I am relatively inflexible for fixed lesson times because of my work, as I am on the road very often. But I'll find out what offers are available. Cheers guys! 3 Quote
anonymoose Posted May 18, 2024 at 12:45 PM Report Posted May 18, 2024 at 12:45 PM On 5/14/2024 at 4:08 PM, abcdefg said: complain about the local pizza The obvious solution is to enjoy the vast array of local cuisine, but if you are a pizza aficionado, I can quite understand the dismay. Quote
suMMit Posted June 9, 2024 at 08:39 AM Report Posted June 9, 2024 at 08:39 AM That's because they haven't tried the strawberry pizza 1 Quote
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